START HERE – Chapter 10: FYI

Dear Friends and Family:
We wanted to let you know that Don has been diagnosed with Neuroendocrine Cancer. This is an uncommon, low-grade, slow-growing cancer, that in his case started in his small intestine (we think) and spread to his liver. We had never heard of it before early March, but have learned alot since then.
The good news: Don is feeling fine! This was found by accident and if it has not been found, we would have no idea. It was a blessing that we found it now, as this disease often goes misdiagnosed for years and written off as basic gastro problems.
Neuroendocrine cancer is an uncommon form of cancer; more like a chronic illness. Many neuroendocrine cancer patients live many years – even decades – managing this disease. Whatever you may know or may have experienced with more common cancers does not apply to this disease.
Don will be getting monthly shots in his bum for the near future; perhaps the rest of his life. This treatment is not chemo and there are few, if any, side effects. He will probably have some abdominal surgery at some point this year. We will know more in a few weeks after some more tests and a couple of 2nd opinions.
Unlike other cancers, he may not ever be cancer-free. But he can still live a long life with this disease. He does not have an upcoming expiration date (anymore than the rest of us do).
For now, you can help Don and our family by treating us NORMALLY. And I promise to let you know if we need anything. Don isn’t ready to be “sick” anytime soon and with proper treatment, he may not have to be anytime soon (years).
So, you get the idea. Don is doing well, feeling well, and fully expects to be with us for a long time. This disease is not contagious. The boys know and continue to be brave and supportive. We are the same people we were 10 minutes ago, before you read this.
I will be sharing updates about our experience on the cancerland roller coaster here on this blog. I will also post some back-dated entries (never public before now) that will catch you up on the last month.
We cherish your love & support!
Stephanie

ChandlersXmas16-golden

Advertisements

11 thoughts on “START HERE – Chapter 10: FYI

  1. Wow, sorry to hear this, but this sounds very manageable. It goes without saying let me know if I can do anything, keep the pups, whatever. You guys are in our thoughts & prayers.
    Cheryl & Lindsay

    Liked by 2 people

  2. Thank you for sharing. It is a blessing that this was found so early. Our prayers are with you. PS I promise to continue to give Don a hard time 😎

    Liked by 2 people

  3. Shocked to read this Steph! Sounds like a definite blessing they were able to find this early, so grateful! Don, you and the boys will be in our prayers as you walk this journey together. I’m glad the prognosis is positive. Know I am thinking of you and though I am not there I am sending a cyber hug to you.
    Love and blessings my friend ❤

    Liked by 2 people

  4. You all have our support and prayers as always. Being well-informed is an important part of life for all of us and enables families to be able to accept and support each other. And you are certainly arming yourselves with information which will help us all, so thank you in advance.. Don and I have always had the understanding that the two of us will remain who we are, no matter what we go through together or apart. So I expect no less than for Don to be .Don through this and other things thick or thin. He’s the most unpredictable soul I know, but knowing him as I do I will predict this one thing… that this challenge will be met with Don’s usual stubbornness and hard-headed determination,,..love you, Don,you’ll prove me right! Love you! tip harris

    Liked by 2 people

  5. Life is such a rollercoaster! Thank you for sharing with us. Sounds like you have the right attitude in getting things rolling and learning how to manage this chronic condition. Xoxox

    Liked by 1 person

  6. Steph…You haven’t changed a bit from when I knew and worked with you back in the 90’s. You, Don and the boys will cope and fight whatever life throws you and come out being just fine. You are the same people as you were 10 min. ago, you just have a different norm to live your lives with. My thoughts, prayers and positive vibes always.

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s